The letter floated ashore,
preserved in a plastic case – debris from the ill-fated plane crash on
the Adriatic Ocean. It was a love letter from a man to his wife. She
apparently carried it with her on her journey, among other mementos.
There were 80th anniversary birthday cards in that plastic box. Some had
children scrawls. “Happi BathDaY GrAMa,” one read cheerfully. “When are
yOu bakin My choclat caKe?” The Adriatic being the northernmost arm of
the Mediterranean Sea, the plastic case had floated ashore by that
route. But what a letter it was. It’s a living letter. So raw with
emotion, so honest. It’s the type any woman would wish for. It was
posted on the Facebook page of one of the grandchildren, now a full
grown woman. This is the content:
“My dear Abigail, you’re that wonderful beautiful thing in my life and I just want you to know. I want you to know how much I love you, how much you mean to me. This I hope I have conveyed to you over the years in my words, in my actions, in my gifts and in my loving. We all need to be reminded once in every while the good things about us, what makes us great and special. The insecurity bred by the fickleness of human memory necessitates such affirmation. But even if memory were faithful and loyal, I would still remind you how much I love you, how much you mean to me.
“My dear Abigail, you’re that wonderful beautiful thing in my life and I just want you to know. I want you to know how much I love you, how much you mean to me. This I hope I have conveyed to you over the years in my words, in my actions, in my gifts and in my loving. We all need to be reminded once in every while the good things about us, what makes us great and special. The insecurity bred by the fickleness of human memory necessitates such affirmation. But even if memory were faithful and loyal, I would still remind you how much I love you, how much you mean to me.
It’s our wedding anniversary next week
and I just want you to know how much I appreciate you, in advance. I am
forever thankful to God for giving me such a wonderful woman in you. You
are no doubt a very beautiful woman. (Do forgive me if my vanity
overtakes me). You have such beautiful and kind eyes. Your eyes
pronounce a “Come hither” look. You have such a gentle chin. Your upper
lip is like Cupid’s bow, your lower lip like stung flesh – full and
inviting. Your smile is a beautifier. Your cheeks are dimpled like the
contours of undulating landscape. Matched with your coiffed brows, you
are my exoticus. You have that beautiful glow on your face – the sheen
from the effervescence of a guileless and radiant soul. All your
beautiful features have conspired to hold me bound for all eternity. I
will love you till kingdom come.
I do not want any other woman but you. I
cannot imagine any other woman but you. The wonderful coincidence of all
your wonderful qualities convinces me there is a God up there. You’re
my living, breathing miracle of mercy from God. What a heart God has
given you… a soft and tender heart. So soft and comforting it has become
my cardiac pillow. I am amazed at your capacity to give sacrificially,
to do good to many and all in kindness and generosity. I wake up each
morning and I can’t but give thanks to God for you. And though you have
so many wonderful features yet your heart is the biggest and most
beautiful part of you. You’re my soul mate, the one who loves me and
just loves me in ways I cannot begin to fathom. You’re the one I trust,
whose counsel I rely on because of the sincerity and purity of your
heart.
You have filled our home with so much
love, so much joy. The physical dimensions of our home are filled with
your love and kindness. I don’t ever want to do without you. I don’t
ever want to lose you. I strive daily to be a better man, a good and
caring husband… just for us and just for you. God has made up for my
lack by giving me an angel in you. He that is forgiven much loveth much,
the scriptures say. Only the undeserving appreciate the depth of grace.
I would love to feel entitled to you, but who can ever be deserving of
such love. Who can ever be deserving of such a one as you? Who can ever
be deserving of your devotion.
And when you dress, you make me proud.
Please don’t ever stop looking stylish and beautiful, even in our old
age. But as proud as I am each time you dress, it is your heart I find
most comforting and assuring. I am able to express myself this way
because I trust your love.
Your dedication to us is an amazing thing
to watch. You’re so invested! Your life is invested in the project
called us. Words cannot express the profundity of the immensity of my
gratitude to God for giving you to me. And in this life and in this
place I am forever grateful I found you. You are my missionary. When I
think of the crossings of life, how we met, I am amazed at the
implausible orchestrations of God. He kept you for me, placed you in a
gift box tied with red ribbons of love. Your quiet, gentle ways bring
peace to my heart. Your love permeates the fleshy walls of my heart and I
am grateful.
Your heart is a vulcanizing implement
pumping warm affection into our home, all day and all night. You have
made our home so soft… no rancour, no fights, no ill affection… Just
peace and love and joy. And you’re such a wonderful mother to our
children. They are lucky to have you. And they know. Please keep this
letter. Some day I shall be gone. And when I am gone I will want you to
read it over and over again. I want to thank you for all the years we’ve
had, all the love we’ve shared, all the years to come, all the joys in
store. I would love to make life happier for you, lovelier for you, more
beautiful for you. Please be assured of my dedication to this quest. I
know you know I am doing my best. I will continue to strive. I love you
with all of my heart my darling. Your one and only, Gabriel.”
What do you think of this letter? Don’t
you think it is quite touching, and so genuine. I know some believe this
kind of love is impossible but there you are! And why go into marriage
for less! Love does happen, better believe it and there are beautiful
happy marriages. May you find your soul mate.
This is dedicated to all beautiful
creatures out there; keep illuminating our dark sides with your
sunshine, WE LOVE YOU from the World Association of Boyfriends and
Husbands (WABH).
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