Love cannot be produced to order! If it does not spring up spontaneously from within, but has to be forced up, it will not usually be true love at all. True love grows out of respect for a person. If you do not respect and admire a person you can never really love him/her.
Sympathy should never be mistaken for love. To marry a girl just because her unfortunate circumstances evoke your sympathy is always extremely unwise.
You may consider it an act of gallantry and sacrifice, but if genuine love does not exist in your heart for her, your marriage can end in a breakdown. Love is an utterly essential pre-requisite in every Christian marriage. Sympathy and pity alone can never be enough. If you do not respect a girl for her spirituality, the courage of her convictions and her intellectual ability, and if you do not have thoughts of admiration concerning her, it would be unwise to go ahead.
The Bible says that love is the greatest thing in the world (1 Cor. 13:13). We cannot afford to ignore it.
Monday 30 September 2013
A REAL RELATIONSHIP!
A real relationship must have simple fights, trust, faith, tears, and genuine, laughter. Jealousy, Communication, patience, weird/stupid unnecessary arguments; no hiding secrets, true love and most importantly there must be forgiveness on both sides.
No one is perfect on earth, we all make mistakes in our relationships but the best solution to our mistakes is to accept your mistakes and say SORRY to your loved one. Don't just apologise when you're in the wrong for apology sakes, apologise because you're truely sorry. The thing is the word SORRY is a small word but it means a lot. Many of us finds it so hard to say it out yet it costs nothing, but it only eases the tension between lovers. Say it from deep inside your heart. Don’t fake it please but just mean it always. And if he/ she is the one in wrong never get tired of forgiving him/her depending on what they
have done. If you get to think of moving on because you’re pissed, my dear think of where you’re going, the time you will take to find and fit in a new relationship, The imperfectness you will find with that new lover might be incomparable to the one you dumped, then you will start regretting and wishing you never dumped her/him. Think about it my dear friends having it in minds that WE HAVE GOT NO ANGELS ON EARTH. We’re the ones to transform our BFs/GFs to be like the angels we desire. So be proud of the one you have got and fight all the challenges that are trying to tear you apart. Right now you may be seeing your guy/girl as a fake person but some dude/girl is somewhere seeing him/ her as a handsome king/beautiful queen. They’re wishing and praying you fall apart for them to replace you.
BE WISE!
No one is perfect on earth, we all make mistakes in our relationships but the best solution to our mistakes is to accept your mistakes and say SORRY to your loved one. Don't just apologise when you're in the wrong for apology sakes, apologise because you're truely sorry. The thing is the word SORRY is a small word but it means a lot. Many of us finds it so hard to say it out yet it costs nothing, but it only eases the tension between lovers. Say it from deep inside your heart. Don’t fake it please but just mean it always. And if he/ she is the one in wrong never get tired of forgiving him/her depending on what they
have done. If you get to think of moving on because you’re pissed, my dear think of where you’re going, the time you will take to find and fit in a new relationship, The imperfectness you will find with that new lover might be incomparable to the one you dumped, then you will start regretting and wishing you never dumped her/him. Think about it my dear friends having it in minds that WE HAVE GOT NO ANGELS ON EARTH. We’re the ones to transform our BFs/GFs to be like the angels we desire. So be proud of the one you have got and fight all the challenges that are trying to tear you apart. Right now you may be seeing your guy/girl as a fake person but some dude/girl is somewhere seeing him/ her as a handsome king/beautiful queen. They’re wishing and praying you fall apart for them to replace you.
BE WISE!
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