I think it is time to acquaint ourselves with certain
perspectives on life because you are in that age bracket where such
knowledge is very vital to your success in life. Soon enough you’ll be
fixed firmly into matrimony. Most ladies dream of matrimonial
conjugation and it is advisable to approach it with wisdom, may you not
fall pray into the hands of the undeserving.
There are certain things that goes on in a man’s thought that I think
you need to acquaint yourself with, this should give you a more rounded
perspective in your relationship with one. This type of understanding
is very essential in the quest for harmonious relationship.
So my homily to you today is that you place a premium/value on
yourself, that you do not sell yourself short to any man. I have
discovered that the male gender respects quality/value very well. We
tend to accord more respect to ladies that we perceive as being a lady
of value/worth. Don’t sell yourself cheap to get a man. It’s not going
to worth it in the long run, but some women discover this truth in the
short run.
Women are very wonderful creatures; they are uniquely and delicately
made. By virtue of genetic and intrinsic properties, the woman is the
cynosure of all eyes. Her visual aesthetics evoke appreciation. Don’t depreciate your worth young lady,
it was given to you by the Supreme being. I have seen many young ladies
emotionally co-habiting with a man who won’t love and adore them, I
don’t need to remind you that you’re embarking on a risky emotional
trip. He’ll rub your nose in shame in public. You were made to be
cherished, don’t you drag your dignity, esteem into the mud.
The gospel truth here is that, a man cannot do without a woman (Wow, I
just gave out the male specie’s long-kept secret! It’s our sub-rosa).
That is why (if you’re a keen observer) he auto-gravitates towards the
next woman (including his mother and sisters) in the event of a quarrel
just to seek comfort.
So with this knowledge, I want you to make yourself invaluable. Make
yourself rare in his estimation. He’ll praise you in the conclave of
men, like the virtuous woman in Proverbs 31:28, he will
call you blessed. As you rightly know men love to boast just about
anything in exclusive assemblies, broadcasting their achievements, non
achievements, networth and less-worth. You’ll be a major header on his
vocally published balance sheet if you place a value on yourself. An
invaluable woman makes a man the subject of secret envy (Prov 31:23).
I pray the Holy spirit will help your understanding in this matter
and if you’ve sold yourself cheaply to any man, it’s time to retrace
your steps and salvage what is left of your dignity.
Be blessed…
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